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Welcome To WillyWorries
Welcome to WillyWorries.com WillyWorries.com – Cartoon: The Willy Tree – “Willius Floppius Variegata” Cartoon of the Willy Tree …
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List of Posts Rolling Posts Held Within The Sexplained® Column The Agony Aunt Blog Click To Go To The Full …
Embarrassed Or Worried About Your Body
Embarrassing bodies: Most people have a concern or two about their body; whether something is normal, or something to be …
Getting there... Galleries coming back online...
The Vulva Gallery is back online… The Willy Gallery’s first page and a half are back online… The Contraception Gallery …
Names & Descriptions
Names and descriptions are being added for each photograph in the galleries. This is a hugely time consuming task but …
The History of The Cyber Clinics
The History of the Sexplained® Cyber Clinics Way back in 2001, Helen J Knox, MD of Sexplained Ltd, (and owner …
Update: Emergency Hormonal Contraception
STATEMENT FROM THE CLINICAL EFFECTIVENESS UNIT September 2015 Faculty of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare (FSRH) response to new data on …
Mum says I shouldn't have sex yet...
My mother keeps telling me I should not have sex until after I’m 21 as cervical cancer runs in my …
Premature Ejaculator - I want to last longer...
I need advice on lasting longer in bed. I am only 24 years old but suffer from premature ejaculation. Sometimes …
New Boyfriend - Rimming and Anal Sex Request
New Boyfriend – Rimming and Anal Sex Request My new boyfriend loves to have oral sex with me, and puts …
Am I gay or bisexual?
Am I gay or bisexual? Is there anyway you can tell if you’re bisexual or gay ? I need to …
My girlfriend's shy about her breasts
My Girlfriend’s Shy About Her Breasts I am going out with a girl who loves sex and gives me a …
I forgot my Pill now he has boils on penis (Contraceptive/Birth Control)
My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years and faithful to each other. Our problem is that I …
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Safer Dating : TEEN & STUDENT INFORMATION
TEEN & STUDENT INFORMATION SAFER DATING and STRANGER DANGER Clothing Theft & Pickpockets Mobile Phones & Handbags Men Hunt in …
Tips For That First Date: TEEN & STUDENT INFORMATION
Tips For That First Date: TEEN & STUDENT INFORMATION Advice when entering someone’s home for the first time Being alone …
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Testicles! oh balls to it! - torsion, hydrocele, cancer, self-examination
TESTICLULAR FACTS Testicular Torsion Testicular Hydrocele Testicular Cancer Testicular Self-Examination What else you should look out for: Testicular torsion, hydrocele, …
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10 questions to ask a new partner before sex
10 questions to ask a new partner before sex Are you having sex with anyone else ? How many sexual …
What you should know before sex with a new partner ?
What you should know before sex with a new partner ? If you’re a virgin, and your partner’s also a …
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What causes the infections and what infections do they cause ?
What causes infection and what infections do they cause ? There are several different types of infection and genital condition, …
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How do STIs affect my Immune system ?
How do STIs affect my Immune System ? If our immune system response is overactive, we develop allergic reactions and …
Viruses, Bacteria & Other Infectious Organisms
Viruses, Bacteria & Other Infectious Organisms Viruses are the most widespread group of parasites. · They are visible only by …
STIs: Some Vital Statistics
STIs: Some Vital Statistics STIs can ruin lives. They can ruin the good thing you had, when your regular partner …
The 4 stages of the human sexual response cycle
The Human Sexual Response There are 4 stages of human sexual response: Excitement or arousal This is when parasympathetic nerve …
Men: Refractory period – lasting minutes or hours
Men: Refractory period – lasting minutes or hours Ejaculation commonly occurs with orgasm – although they are two separate events: …
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Premature Ejaculation - A very common occurrence!
Premature ejaculation Premature ejaculation is a very common experience. It has been defined by Masters & Johnson – the US …
Premature Ejaculation – A very common occurrence! Read More »
Delayed Ejaculation: I just can't 'come' / 'cum'
Delayed ejaculation Just as many men ejaculate quickly, there are men who are unable to ejaculate when they choose to …
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Retrograde Ejaculation - 'Firing Backwards'
Retrograde ejaculation Retrograde ejaculation, or ejaculating backwards, in to the bladder, also has implications for fertility and is a common …
Some Unusual Things About Ejaculation
Some Unusual Things About Ejaculation ! Here are some unusual things about ejaculation: · Ejaculation is not always necessary to cause …
How should I put on a condom ?
How should I put on a condom ? After ensuring that you are about to use a reliable condom – …
How are condoms removed ?
How are condoms removed ? After ejaculation, it is essential to withdraw BEFORE your penis goes flaccid again. HOLD THE …
How should I dispose of a condom ?
How should I dispose of a condom ? When air is in a condom, it tends to float in water …
Why are condoms are too big for me ?
Why are condoms are too big for me ? Condoms fit all sizes of adult penis. Tighter, smaller condoms are …
Why can’t I get a condom on easily ?
Why can’t I get a condom on easily ? How do I get a condom on ? Because there are …
Why do condoms slip off and stay inside during sex ?
Why do condoms slip off and stay inside during sex ? If you don’t have a fully erect penis – …
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Why does a condom slip off and stay inside after sex ?
Oh no! It came off… What’s going on? To avoid the condom slipping off and staying inside after sex, it’s essential that …
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Why does a condom burst during sex ?
To avoid a condom bursting during sex: · Ensure that all the air has been removed from the teat of …
Why can I use condoms with water based lubricant and not oil based product?
Why can I use condoms with water based lubricant and not products like Vaseline® or Baby Oil ? Oil interacts …
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I think I’m allergic to condoms, what should I do ?
What can I do if I’m allergic to condoms? Hypo-allergenic (low allergy) ones are available. However, it may not be the …
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INTRODUCTION To Safer Sex
INTRODUCTION To Safer Sex Information and advice provided on our website is universal and non-judgmental – ie. it can apply …
Safer Sex for Healthy Adults
SAFER SEX for healthy adults For protection against all Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs), we recommend that you always: •Take universal …
High - Medium - Low Risk Sexual Activities
High – Medium – Low Risk Sexual Activities HIGHEST RISK ACTIVITIES High risk activities include: •Anal sex (buggery/sodomy) without a …
Safer Sexual Health In Every Pregnancy
SEXUAL HEALTH IN PREGNANCY Stop! No sex without a condom. Safer Sex IN and After Pregnancy Condoms, Condoms, Condoms. If …
Epididymo-Orchy WHAT??
My goodness, I ache down there… what on earth is wrong with me? One of my rugger mates said I …
Tortured testicles turn into torsion!!
Torsion is more likely if: •The onset of pain is sudden. •The pain is severe. •Tests performed during the initial …
The New Year Is Coming To Clinic ... Are you, too?
May the new year bring you good health, and good cheer, no unexplained or unwanted itches, discharges, sores or ulcers, …
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Thought Provoking Sayings
A friend recently sent me a couple of quotes he heard, related to HIV, but appropriate for other situations. I …
Real Sex v Porn Sex
If you are teaching young people, or merely interested in pornography, here’s something to make you think about the difference …
Male Circumcision for HIV Prevention
According to the World Health Organisation: There is compelling evidence that male circumcision reduces the risk of heterosexually acquired HIV …
No Means No - Not Yes - Even Between Valentines There May Be Rape
Valentine’s Day Is Coming – check this out: Rape and consent: What you need to know before you have sex …
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I want him to wear a condom
I want him to wear a condom COULD YOU help me come up with a way to tell my friend …
'Vaginal Fisting' leaves me fearful for future
‘Vaginal Fisting’ leaves me fearful for future MY boyfriend and I love to play sex games, and recently he put …
First-time sex romp with risky result
First-time sex romp with risky result I’M really worried and urgently need your advice. I had intercourse with a …
It was just a little lick ... but will it cost me?
It was just a little lick … but will it cost me? What are the chances that I could get …
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Eating faeces: Is it the latest fad ?
Eating faeces: Is it the latest fad ? I WATCHED a video recently where people ate faeces (feces). I thouht …
8 More Men In The Willy Gallery
8 More Men In The Willy Gallery Just a quick update, for visitors to WillyWorries.com’s gallery collection of normal, healthy …
Update: Sexplained Books: e-Pub versions uploaded to iBooks
Update: Both Sexplained Books have been uploaded to Apple’s iBooks / iTunes system for review. If accepted, they will be …
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Sexplained E-Books are now 'live' on iBooks
Click here for more information: 1st November, 2016 UPDATE: Sexplained Books are now available as animated, interactive publications for iPads and …
"Runway Purses" - Male Catwalk Models (WARNING Mature Content: ALL Men Are Naked)
MATURE CONTENT: This video seems to be circulating but it took some searching to find the source for reference and …
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Sexplained Books - Now Available via Kobo
Check out the video of Sexplained Books now being available via Kobo.com And previous launch in Barbados, of paper …
Blood pressure and lost sex drive affecting erections
Since I was diagnosed with raised blood pressure two years ago, I have been on medication and my blood pressure …
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Genital warts, gone for now but I'm worried that they might return
Two years ago, I was diagnosed with genital warts. After I’d been given treatment for several months, the warts disappeared. …
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My boyfriend is married but still insists on having sex without a condom
My boyfriend is married but insists on having sex with me without a condom. I know he hardly has relations …
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Redness On Penis Turns Into Little White Spots
Every now and then I get redness on my penis that then turns into little white spots that go away …
Itchy Anus After Anal Sex
After trying anal sex, my anus has been itching like crazy. At first, it was a bearable itch that occurred …
My Penis And Scrotum Are Always Shrivelled And I Have Erectile Dysfunction
This is an issue that’s been bothering me for some time but I have been too embarrassed to discuss it. …
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WillyWorries.com Now Includes VulvaWorries.com
WillyWorries.com is coming back to life but still not quite where it was back in 2004. However, because we know …
Help! I've fractured my penis !!!
Fractured penis, what was the healing process like? I had the painful misfortune of fracturing my penis. It was surgically …
Help! Smelly penis and testicles
I shower regularly and pay close attention to my penis and testicles while bathing, but still for some reason when …
I can feel the g-spot being stimulated, but it just feels like I’m going to urinate.
I don’t understand how “amazing” penetration is supposed to feel. I can feel the g-spot being stimulated, but it just feels …
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Help! Vagina, Clitoris, Urethra, Vulva, Labia Majora, Labia Minora - what and where are they all?
The Vagina, Clitoris, Urethra, Vulva, Labia Majora, Labia Minora – what are they all? I want to see pictures of …
When can we have sex again? I can't wait much longer...
I’ve recently been diagnosed with Chlamydia and so has my boyfriend. We have both now been treated. How long do …
When can we have sex again? I can’t wait much longer… Read More »
Sample Interactive Pages - "Sexplained One - Sex & Your Health"
Do you work in the field of sexual health, or want to do so? Are you a nurse, a doctor, …
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Sample Interactive Pages - "Sexplained Two - For Changing Times"
“Sexplained Two – For Changing Times” Do you work with young people, know some or have some at home? Are …
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Help! Is it thrush, is it BV? I'm itching like mad 'down below'
What About Thrush? (Also Called Yeast Infection or Candidiasis) Hi I heard a friend of mine talking about “thrush” recently …
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How can I get my vagina to be tight?
Need to shrink vagina – How can I get my vagina to be tight? THIS might sound weird, but in March …
Can you tell me what the average vagina looks like?
Can you tell me what the average vagina looks like? In a simple word, the answer is “no”, I …
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Using Birth Control Pills - Scared of HIV AIDS, genital herpes and genital warts
I’m using Microynon 30®, one of the oldest Birth Control Pills – but I’m scared of getting HIV AIDS, genital …
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Vaginal Health - What makes a healthy vagina?
Many, if not all women, wonder at some time whether their vagina is healthy, or if something is changing ‘down …
Ladies! No !! Please !!! Labiaplasty on girls as young as 9
Just this week, BBC TV’s Victoria Derbyshire Show has been discussing labiaplasty (surgical alteration of the labia majora/labia minora ) …
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How can I find an NHS Sexual Health Clinic Near Me
How Can I Find An NHS Sexual Health Clinic Near Me It is getting harder to find NHS sexual health …
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Just starting a Google+ Interactive Cyber Clinic
Hi I’m just getting my head around Google+ and found that there’s a facility to build a community and let …
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Female Genital Mutilation / FGM / Girl Child Beading
Female Genital Mutilation / FGC / Female Genital Cutting / FGC / Girl Child Beading As a clinical nurse specialist, …
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9 Reasons To Have More Sex
You love the gym and you get excited about kinky sex, but are they good for each other? Are they …
Sex Within the Context of a Loving Relationship - Life is not a Porn Film
Sexplained Two – For Changing Times Sex Within the Context of a Loving Relationship Foreword “Sex Within the Context of …
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Pain in my squishy testicles and enlarged balls
Painful – Squishy Testicles – Enlarged Balls What to do, when to do it? I’m a 20-year-old male with no …
My lab test for STDs came back
My lab test for STDs came back and while I primarily took it to test for HIV/AIDS, it also had …
Am I going through normal menopause?
I am 53 years old and having heavy bleeding from last five years. Now from last ten months I am …
Discharge After Period Smells Like Vinegar
Discharge After Period Smells Like Vinegar This issue has been bothering me for years, and somehow it happens for a …
Penis Head Is Red And Smelly
Penis Head: I Have A Red And Smelly Penis My penis head is red and inflamed when it becomes erect …
Penetration Without Ejaculation - Am I Pregnant?
Penetration Without Ejaculation Am I Pregnant? Birth Control Question I had unprotected sex about five weeks ago but he did not …
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Extra Skin Near Vaginal Opening
Extra Skin Near Vaginal Opening I noticed a small amount of pain when my husband and I were fooling around …
Is it Yeast Infection or Herpes?
Is it Yeast Infection or Herpes? I’ve been dating this guy for two months and we had a weekend staycation …
Unprotected Sex Seven Weeks Ago
I think I need an HIV test… We also had unprotected oral sex. Now, I am worried because I have …
What should I do about my contraception
Hi What should I do about my contraception? I have used many different forms of contraception. I started when I …
Fevers as a period symptom
I know that some women get fevers as a period symptom but are high fevers normal? These symptoms are new. …
Cervical Smear Tests: Fans of reality TV show "TOWIE" praise one of the cast, Courtney Green, for filming her cervical smear test for the reality TV show
TOWIE is the butt of so many jokes but just sometimes, these programmes can get a health message about cervical …
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